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Book Reviews: September

I'm in love with this photo!  When I look at it I see a tender moment, nature, love, and simplicity. Everything I hold dear to my heart.

September was dedicated to cookbooks, baking, exploring my surroundings and enjoying cooler weather.  I'm not blogging much these days but you can keep up with me daily on twitter, pinterest, and instagram.  This is where I'm leaning these days with quick life updates from running, Lymes, and cooking.... to researching life's next adventure. 

I have been to NY, CT, NJ... visiting farm to table concepts.  Enjoying nature, cooking.  I should dedicate a few posts to food and what I'm learning - maybe!


Reading: I read two novels in September, listened to one.

Love Anthony: I had been waiting for this novel to be published for months.  Genova is a favorite writer of mine, descriptive and smart. 

This story follows two women, their lives don't overlap much so I found myself drawn to one woman's story more than the other.  The women meet a few times and the story wraps up nicely.

Love Anthony was good but Still Alice is still my favorite book written by Lisa Genova.

My goodreads rating: 3 stars

The Longest Way Home: Okay... I loved this book.  I'm a travel junky who loves adventure and long before reading this book I mentioned plans to climb Mt Kilimanjaro.  So reading a chapter dedicated to the climb was thrilling!

I read somewhere that this is the guy's version of Eat, Pray, Love.  There are similarities, McCarthy's story moves forward/backward in time and is about someones struggle to commit.  I listened to The Longest Way Home, narrated by McCarthy himself and enjoyed hearing his voice as I walked the trails.

My goodreads rating: 4 stars

Forgotten:  As posted on Goodreads... I enjoyed this one but Arranged is still my favorite by this author. 

With Forgotten, I was expecting something different and that always gets me in trouble.  It's not the author's fault - I read Africa, rebuilding a life... was hooked. 

It's a fun/chicklit story about a woman navitaging through life, the way a normal person would.  That is the best part of this book!  The main character returns from an extended trip to Africa and has to deal with people reactions/situations... because 'they' decided she died. 

Read it, it's fun.

My goodreads rating: 3 stars
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Book Reviews: August

All of the books read in August were written by wildly popular American authors!  I even caved and read summer sensation Gone Girl.


Gone Girl: Everyone has read it, most loved it without question BUT I can't imagine recommending this book.

After listening to Slate's audiobook discussion for Gone Girl... I like the book a little more.  It is a chess match, filled with unlikeable characters.  Many of the developments are implausible (but necessary on occasion to move a story forward). 

I HATED the mall, blue book, part of the story.  It just wasn't needed.  I wish I was scared reading it. 

In my head, I describe Gone Girl as 'misery' meets 'sleeping with the enemy' light.  Two movies I have never been able to watch without leaving the room! If you want to read a dark, creepy, thriller read 'i'd know you anywhere'.

My goodreads rating: 3 stars


Where we Belong: If you enjoy Giffin you will like this book.  She delivers another solid women's journey novel.

I have to say I liked this book more when I finished it, than while reading it.  Most of the book leads up to something.  I tend to like books set post event - letting me read how characters handle/grow from situations. 

I wonder if this is book one, and we might read a new novel from the father's view.  That could be interesting.

My goodreads rating: 3 stars

Wallflower in Bloom: I didn't plan to read this book but after hearing someone rave about it I changed my mind. This almost never works for me. I didn't even rate it on goodreads, it wouldn't be fair to the author.

DWTS (Dancing with the Stars) is lost on me. The main character was a bit to whiny, shallow, and self centered for my enjoyment. Lot's of talk about Devil Dogs and Ring Ding's... ugh. I'm thankful I don't have anyone in my daily life that I would describe from this cast of characters!  I ended up skimming the second half to see how the story ended.

However, the humor of the guru brother wasn't lost on me. I wanted to love it - if only for the cover. I love the cover!

My goodreads rating: NA
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Book Reviews: July

Traveling 24 of 34 days in July (and early August)... I was able to get a lot of reading in!

Have you read any of these titles?  Did you like, love, hate any of them?  
The Book of Jonas (audio):  I enjoyed this one but it's a dark, sad tale.  Well written but to be honest I would have put this down if we weren't reading it for discussion.  It didn't hold my interest.  It's an interesting story, with no big moments.

My book club picked it but we are not planning to discuss it - we decided to pass and pick a new book.

My Goodreads rating: 3 stars


The Forgotten Waltz (audio): I listened to this while walking the streets of Dublin.  A powerful story, sad.  Since I was listening - it felt like I was listening to a friend tell me about her life, decisions and the consequences.

I highly recommend this for book clubs - there's a lot to discuss!

My Goodreads rating: 4+ stars

How Lucky are you: This is a hard luck story, I wish it would have been a little darker.  It could have been so good if a little more detail was shared. 

That said, I do recommend it if the synopsis grabs your attention.

My Goodreads rating: 3 stars



I couldn't love you more: I read this in flight.  A quick read, good writing, a powerful story.  This is my kind of women's lit.

Blended family, a tragedy up front, the rest of the book deals with how the family overcomes a situation. 

Another good book club selection! 

My Goodreads rating: 4 stars

The Bay of Foxes: This is one of my favorite books read this year. Hemingway like!

I don't even know how to express my view of this book, without sharing details.  So I will just tell you to read it!

Filled with twists - I read this in one day.  Magnificent!

My Goodreads rating: 5 stars



The Good Woman: I have many friends dealing with mid life, some have had affairs, others are wondering "is this really it".  So Jane's novel really grabbed hold of me.  Let's face it - Jane knows how to write a book about women's emotions and working through situations! 

I also loved that this book has an issue arise in the book and we have to watch the family deal with a situation.  Plus family dynamics... I can't wait to read book two!

My Goodreads rating: 4 stars
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Travel: Ten days in Dublin


Welcome to Ireland!  Have I got a story for you.

I had the opportunity to spend ten days at The Shelbourne, located across the street from St Stephen's Green -  my husband was there on business and I explored just about every crevice of the neighborhood, napped, read books, walked about ten miles a day. 

I like to walk, sit in coffee shops, book stores, and linger on park benches to feel the city.  We had just been in the Rocky Mountains days before flying to Dublin.  It wasn't a planned trip.

In the evenings we ate dinner, listened to local performing in pubs, and on the streets.  We visited museums, rented a car to drive to Northern Ireland, Belfast and enjoyed a day at Ballgally.  A town we stumbled upon that holds a special place in my heart.

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Review: The Virgin Cure

Why I picked it: I have been a fan of Ami McKay's since reading The Birth House, it's one of the books I recommend most, to friends and book clubs.

I have been waiting to read another novel from this author for years (The Virgin Cure is McKay's second novel).

Synopsis: The summer Moth turns twelve, her mother puts a halt to her explorations by selling her boots to a local vendor, convinced that Moth was planning to run away. Wanting to make the most of her every asset, she also sells Moth to a wealthy woman as a servant, with no intention of ever seeing her again.

In that world Moth meets Miss Everett, the owner of a brothel simply known as an "infant school." Miss Everett caters to gentlemen who pay dearly for companions who are "willing and clean," and the most desirable of them all are young virgins like Moth. That's not the worst of the situation, though. In a time and place where mysterious illnesses ravage those who haven't been cautious, no matter their social station, diseased men yearn for a "virgin cure" - thinking that deflowering a "fresh maid" can heal the incurable and tainted.

Type: Historical Fiction

Quick Take: I read this book in one sitting, while flying from NYC to Boulder. When I do this I tend to have a different reading experience, a 'completeness' that I don't get often.

McKay's writing transports the reader, at least this is what happens for me.  I felt the room Moth and her mom lived in, felt the emotions on the page.  I was right there with Moth when she slept on the roof, took a bite of fruit deemed old, the day she met the mistress and realized what her mom did.

I don't want to give anything away but can I say that I loved the mistress' presence throughout the novel.

Historical brilliance with a gripping story!

Rating: 4 stars
Source: Review Copy (TLC Book Tours)
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Reviews in a flash!

The last few months have been crazy busy!  I realized I read a few books that I didn't review that I read in May/June. 
Gold: I really enjoyed this novel!  I'm not an 'elite' athlete but I train for events like elite's... taking training, nutrition, sleep, goals, etc into consideration.  I loved the cycling part and reading how training intrudes on life, or maybe it's better to say how life intrudes with an Olympian.

In the beginning I was concerned with the Star Wars references but they made sense after a while - a little girl's way to deal with her illness. 

The timing is perfect, with the Olympics less than a month away.  Cleave is a brilliant writer.  I wonder how long I have to wait for his next novel.

Rating: 4 stars

Synopsis: Kate and Zoe met at nineteen when they both made the cut for the national training program in track cycling—a sport that demands intense focus, blinding exertion, and unwavering commitment. Now at thirty-two, the women are facing their last and biggest race: the 2012 Olympics. Each wants desperately to win gold, and each has more than a medal to lose.

The First Husband: I read this one in a day, while sitting on the deck enjoying a sunny day.  I'm a fan of Laura Dave so it's no surprise that I liked this book.  A fun summer selection. 

Rating: 3 stars

Synopsis: Los Angeles–based travel writer Annie Adams thinks she has it all. Nick, her longtime film director boyfriend, has finally hit the big time, her column is syndicated, and they've got a great dog. Then Nick moves out. Three months later, Annie is married to Griffin, a down-to-earth chef with a restaurant in the Berkshires. When Nick asks for a second chance, Annie is torn between her husband and the man she might have been meant to marry.


The Cost of Hope: I'm a sucker for a memoir.  I enjoy reading other peoples stories, and I'm willing to 'just go with it'.  I know liberties are taken, and that it's one person's view of a situation/event. 

I didn't realize how hard it can be for some to get coverage while ill, or how the healthcare system really works.  This is Terence's story about his illness and the story of the healthcare system, from his wife's experience. It was really interesting.  With the author being an acclaimed reporter, the story may of lacked a bit of the emotional tug that I was looking for but overall I'm happy I read it.

Rating: 3 stars

Synopsis: From Pulitzer Prize winner Amanda Bennett comes a moving, eye-opening, and beautifully written memoir - The Cost of Hope chronicles the extraordinary measures Amanda and Terence take to preserve not only Terence’s life but also the life of their family. After his death, Bennett uses her skills as a veteran investigative reporter to determine the cost of their mission of hope. What she discovers raises important questions many people face, and vital issues about the intricacies of America’s healthcare system.
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Books: June Reviews

June was so busy!  I have been busy enjoying summer: from having company for almost three weeks, to throwing parties, running again and preparing for vacation...

I'm looking forward to July, which will be over in a flash... I'm making it a priority to enjoy every moment.

Gift idea: I discovered a great book series recently, for life, love, family, work, etc... I love this idea and plan to buy some of these books for gifts.

The purpose of 2 is to inspire you to dream together, plan together, laugh together, and grow together.

Have you heard of the six word love story? 'blind dates, soulmates, married 65 years'.  Wouldn't you love to receive six words like this?  Try sending them to someone, a friend, your spouse, a child.

June Reviews:

Looking at the list below, I'm surprised to discover that I read so much chick lit.  People kept recommending books to me, only to realize I was reading about young love over and over. It's summer so this is fine but I am transitioning back to deep/dark subject matter/plots for July!

Favorite book read: The Dovekeeper's

Books are listed in the order I read/finished them:

Always Something There to Remind Me: For some reason all of the light summer books I'm reading are about reflecting back on past love, revisiting, a plot twist and closure.  This is a fun novel, I'm happy I read it!  Perfect for the beach.

Rating: 3.5 stars

Synopsis: Can you ever really know if love is true? And if it is, should you stop at anything to get it?

Always Something There to Remind Me is a story that will resonate with any woman who has ever thought of that one first love and wondered, “Where is he?” and “What if…?” Filled with nostalgia humor and heart, it will transport you, and inspire you to believe in the power of first love.

The Dovekeepers: First let me say I loved this book.  It's at the top of my list for the year.  A must read!

I listened to this book but wish I read it since it's filled with so many facts and details. I also read faster than a narrator... so I'm sure I would have enjoyed it even more if I read it.

Rating: 4.5 stars

Synopsis:  Nearly two thousand years ago, nine hundred Jews held out for months against armies of Romans on Masada, a mountain in the Judean desert. According to the ancient historian Josephus, two women and five children survived. Based on this tragic and iconic event, Hoffman’s novel is a spellbinding tale of four extraordinarily bold, resourceful, and sensuous women, each of whom has come to Masada by a different path.

The lives of these four complex and fiercely independent women intersect in the desperate days of the siege. All are dovekeepers, and all are also keeping secrets—about who they are, where they come from, who fathered them, and whom they love.

The Next Best Thing: I didn't like this book, I know a screenwriter and didn't connect to the character in the book... it felt odd knowing my friends experience pitching a TV show vs whats written in this book.  I have never been a big Weiner fan, I can't explain why but I tend to find them flat.  I need to pass next time, for me, for her.

Rating: 2.5/3 stars

Synopsis: Set against the fascinating backdrop of Los Angeles show business culture, with an insider’s ear for writer’s room showdowns and an eye for bad backstage behavior and set politics, Jennifer Weiner’s new novel is a rollicking ride on the Hollywood roller coaster, a heartfelt story about what it’s like for a young woman to love, and lose, in the land where dreams come true.

Shout Her Lovely Name: This is a collection of short stories.  I loved the first one!  The others are good, this is extremely well written and worth your time.

Rating: 4 stars

Synopsis: Mothers and daughters ride the familial tide of joy, regret, loathing, and love in these stories of resilient and flawed women.

So Far Away: I didn't love this book, didn't connect with the character and frankly... I wasn't invested.  After skimming to the end I read a review that mentioned it moves at a very slow pace but if you hold out, it's very good.  I wish I read this review before I skimmed, I would have pushed through.

Rating: DNF (since I skimmed half of the book I can't rate it)

Synopsis: Thirteen-year-old Natalie Gallagher is trying to escape: from her parents' ugly divorce, and from the vicious cyber-bullying of her former best friend.

Her salvation arrives in an unlikely form: Bridget O'Connell, an Irish maid working for a wealthy Boston family. Bridget lives only in the pages of a dusty old 1920s diary Natalie unearthed in her mother's basement. But the life she describes is as troubling - and mysterious - as the one Natalie is trying to navigate herself, almost a century later.

Why We Broke Up: This is a heavy book, physically! It's filled with illustrations and feels good in your hands.  It's in the guest room, the perfect home.  A quick read for guests.

It's a YA book about a girl who has recently broken up with her boyfriend.  She's writing about all the keepsakes from thier time together.  Girls fall, hard.  I loved the ending, a typical teen love ending to make the novel feel real.

I enjoyed this one and am happy I read it.

Rating: 3.5 stars

Synopsis: I'm telling you why we broke up, Ed. I'm writing it in this letter, the whole truth of why it happened.

Min Green and Ed Slaterton are breaking up, so Min is writing Ed a letter and giving him a box. Inside the box is why they broke up. Two bottle caps, a movie ticket, a folded note, a box of matches, a protractor, books, a toy truck, a pair of ugly earrings, a comb from a motel room, and every other item collected over the course of a giddy, intimate, heartbreaking relationship. Item after item is illustrated and accounted for, and then the box, like a girlfriend, will be dumped.

A 2012 Michael L. Printz Honor Book
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Review: Wife 22

Why I picked it: Everyone seems to be reading this book! 

Synopsis: Maybe it was those extra five pounds I’d gained. Maybe it was because I was about to turn the same age my mother was when I lost her. Maybe it was because after almost twenty years of marriage my husband and I seemed to be running out of things to say to each other. 

But when the anonymous online study called “Marriage in the 21st Century” showed up in my inbox, I had no idea how profoundly it would change my life. It wasn’t long before I was assigned both a pseudonym (Wife 22) and a caseworker (Researcher 101).

And, just like that, I found myself answering questions.

Before the study, my life was an endless blur of school lunches and doctor’s appointments, family dinners, budgets, and trying to discern the fastest-moving line at the grocery store. I was Alice Buckle: spouse of William and mother to Zoe and Peter, drama teacher and Facebook chatter, downloader of memories and Googler of solutions.

But these days, I’m also Wife 22. And somehow, my anonymous correspondence with Researcher 101 has taken an unexpectedly personal turn. Soon, I’ll have to make a decision—one that will affect my family, my marriage, my whole life. But at the moment, I’m too busy answering questions.

As it turns out, confession can be a very powerful aphrodisiac.

Quick Take: Well... I'm forty-four, a runner and the family facebooker.  My husband is in consumer products marketing.  Strange set of coincidences as I started reading this book. Thank goodness it ends there!

This novel explores how a bored wife finds a little excitement - a secret that snowballs into the 'potential of more'. It's a quick read, an original take on an age old situation.

Women will connect with this book, especially those who have been married for a long time.  Most of us can look at our friends and see that some are happier than others with any/all aspects of life, not just their marriage. I am left wondering how this book could impact someones life... if they are bored with their marriage this could be a discussion starter. 

Here are a few of the questions Alice is asked to answer:
- List three things that scare you.
- Do you believe love can last?
- Would your friends say you are happily married?
- What do you think about the current trend of couples divorcing based on spouses feeling more like roommates than lovers?
- Describe something you wouldn’t admit to your best friend
- Has your life turned out the way you hoped it would?
- Write a letter to your spouse telling them what you can’t say in person

Rating: 4 stars
Source: Review Copy
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Reviews in a Flash!

Below are the books I read in May (and April but didn't review).

In addition to the books below, I have plowed through the 50 Shades trilogy.  What can I say about these books?  While horribly written, I was curious what all the buzz was about.  Completely over the top and unnecessary at times but if you enjoy this genre you will probably love them.  I know the movie rights were sold for five million dollars and wonder who will play Christian and Anastasia.  The casting will make or break the movie experience.
Arranged (May 15):  In her fast-paced and fun second novel, Catherine McKenzie takes us on a thirty-something woman's journey to find love in a somewhat unorthodox manner.

Quick Take: I loved this book.  It has a few twists that kept me engrossed in the story and wondering what would happen.  The perfect summer read!

McKenzie is one of my new favorite authors - I can't wait for her next novel to be released in the US, Forgotten.

Rating: 4 stars

The Book of Summers (May 29): A young woman confronts her magical, tragic past when she receives a scrapbook of the summers spent with her estranged mother.

Quick Take: Can you forgive someone who doesn't want to be forgiven?  Someone with no regrets about leaving a family, choosing the pull of a home town/country over parenting?

The was a tough book for me to read. I ended up skimming parts of it, it's just too close to some of my childhood memories but it's powerful and emotional.

Putting my personal issues aside, this would make for a nice summer read. It's well written, strong plot, and let's the reader explore another country.

Rating: DNF (I did skim to the end to see what happened)

Purge: A breathtakingly suspenseful tale of two women dogged by their own shameful pasts and the dark, unspoken history that binds them.

Quick Take: This was my book selection for my book club.  It's safe to say that none of us enjoyed it.  I'm not sure if it's the writing style (choppy, moving backwards and forwards) but something didn't sit right. 

I walked away without the answers I was hoping for.

Rating: 2 stars

The Unfinished work of Elizabeth D (Jun 5):  Before there were blogs, there were journals. And in them we’d write as we really were, not as we wanted to appear. But there comes a day when journals outlive us. And with them, our secrets.

Quick Take: Unfortunately this is another book that I didn't love.  It moved too slow for me.  Having friends and family die from terminal illness... I wasn't able to believe Elizabeth's story/decisions.  It was a little far fetched for me.

Rating: 2/3 stars

Have you read any of these books?  Are you reading anything good that I should add to my list?
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Life: I am a Tough Mudder!

Most of you have been following me through my running journey over the past few years... from marathon's to Ultra distances to becoming a Tough Mudder.  So you earned this with me! 

Thank you for all your support.  For letting me bombard you with running summaries, photo's from the trails.. etc.. You have been my cheerleaders. 

It's about twenty four hours after the run - I'm happy to say I'm feeling great!  I'm black and blue, my knees are a hot mess (black & blue, bloody, tender).... but I did get in a run today.  Which is a big success. 

It will be a few more days before I have photo's to share but let me tell you... it's tough!

Here's a recap:
We started in waves of 100, every twenty minutes.  To get to the starting line I had to scale a ten foot wall.

With two obstacles in the first mile, my knees are bleeding from the muddy/rock crawl (under barbed wire) and I'm wet from the ice bath.  Does it help if I tell you the water is blue, and smelled horrible (I wonder if there was manure in the water)... ICK! 

Most of the mileage was on a trail and the mile mud run was one mile straight up!  Try running a mile up the side of a mountain, in 6 inches of thick, wet, slimy mud.... super tough and slippery.  People who have completed other TM runs were telling us this was the most difficult one yet.  Usually the runs take place on flat surfaces like race tracks so natural terrain adds another level of difficulty.  

I ran through fire, scaled walls, climbed ropes, carried a log, crawled, ran in mud pools, walked balance beams, I even made it through the one I feared the most... the long tunnel filled with swamp water. 

So... what was the toughest obstacle for me? A thirty foot jump into murky water that was so cold my lungs compressed.  Followed by a short swim and rope climb out of the murkiness... I never need to do that again!

Twelve miles and about twenty military obstacles later, I did it. I'm a Tough Mudder!
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Review: The Lola Quartet

Why I picked it: The Omaha Bookworm's read Mandel's first novel - we even had the opportunity to discuss the book with her over the telephone thanks to Lisa from Lit & Life (for setting up the call).

I have continued to read her novels, she has a very interesting writing style.

Synopsis: Gavin Sasaki is a promising young journalist in New York City, until he’s fired in disgrace following a series of unforgivable lapses in his work. It’s early 2009, and the world has gone dark very quickly; the economic collapse has turned an era that magazine headlines once heralded as the second gilded age into something that more closely resembles the Great Depression. The last thing Gavin wants to do is return to his hometown of Sebastian, Florida, but he’s drifting toward bankruptcy and is in no position to refuse when he’s offered a job by his sister, Eilo, a real estate broker who deals in foreclosed homes.

Eilo recently paid a visit to a home that had a ten-year-old child in it, a child who looks very much like Gavin and who has the same last name as Gavin’s high school girlfriend Anna, whom Gavin last saw a decade ago. Gavin—a former jazz musician, a reluctant broker of foreclosed properties, obsessed with film noir and private detectives—begins his own private investigation in an effort to track down Anna and their apparent daughter who have been on the run all these years from a drug dealer from whom Anna stole $121,000.

Type: Fiction

Quick Take: As mentioned above, Mandel's writing is amazing.  She knows how to write a story, keeping the reader guessing, leading us on. This novel is part personal story, part mystery.  Her readers have come to appreciate the many twists and turns she includes in a story.

I don't normally read mysteries, who dunnit's, where are they books.... but if you like this genre, please try reading a Mandel novel.  If I'm going to compare her work to a movie, The Fugitive comes to mind.  The Lola Quartet is an interesting story that leaves the reader thinking.

Rating: 3 stars
Source: Review Copy
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Review: skinnydipping

Why I picked it: Like many of us, my family first discovered Bethenny Frankel on Martha Stewart's version of The Apprentice.  I appreciate her honesty and what she's willing to share.  I love that she's willing to show that life isn't perfect.

Do you watch her show on Bravo? I can't believe I'm going to say this... I hope she signs off from reality TV soon. While I enjoy watching her show I think her family deserves some time away from the camera, to live a normal life.  I just hope to see a peak of her new apartment first!

Synopsis: Faith is an aspiring actress just out of college, who moves to L.A. determined to have it all—a job on the most popular TV show, a beach house in Malibu, and a gorgeous producer boyfriend. But when reality hits, she finds herself with a gig as a glorified servant, a role that has more to do with T&A than acting, and a dead-end relationship. Finally, Faith decides she’s had enough of La La Land and moves back to New York with just a suitcase and her dog, Muffin.

Five years later, Faith has finally found her groove as an entrepreneur and manages to land a spot on a new reality TV show hosted by her idol—the legendary businesswoman and domestic goddess Sybil Hunter. Diving into the bizarre world of reality TV, Faith’s loud mouth and tell-it-like-it-is style immediately get her in trouble with her fellow contestants—the delusional socialite; the boozy lifestyle coach; the moody headband designer; and her closest friend, the ambitious housewife who eventually betrays her. Even Sybil is not what she appears.

Type: Fiction (chic-lit)

Quick Take: I'm happy I'm writing my review after watching her interview on The Today Show.  In the interview she mentioned this novel is a palette cleanser, and that she had so much fun writing it.  For me this is important... let me explain why:

If you are familiar with Bethenny, this novel is so close to the life we observe on television.  It's a super light, fun book that follows Faith's journey on a 'Martha like' reality show.  While reading the book you will try to put a name to the characters. 

A super fast read, funny, and left me wondering what bits happened in real life.

Rating: 3 stars
Source: NetGalley (review copy)
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Review: Home Front

Why I picked it: Everyone I know who reads Kristin Hannah loves her novels.  I wasn't planning to read this book but picked up the audio from my local library.

Synopsis: All marriages have a breaking point. All families have wounds. All wars have a cost. . . .

Like many couples, Michael and Jolene Zarkades have to face the pressures of everyday life—-children, careers, bills, chores—-even as their twelve-year marriage is falling apart. Then an unexpected deployment sends Jolene deep into harm’s way and leaves defense attorney Michael at home, unaccustomed to being a single parent to their two girls. As a mother, it agonizes Jolene to leave her family, but as a solider she has always understood the true meaning of duty. In her letters home, she paints a rose-colored version of her life on the front lines, shielding her family from the truth. But war will change Jolene in ways that none of them could have foreseen. When tragedy strikes, Michael must face his darkest fear and fight a battle of his own—-for everything that matters to his family.

Type: fiction

Quick Take: At the core, this is an important story. I don't know anyone personally who has been deployed, the impact of deployment has on a family, returning home with an injury, and life after deployment is new to me. I'm aware of the personal struggles but haven't thought about how hard it can be to accept things and move on (and when it's okay not to move forward). This novel pay a lot of attention to the emotional toll deployment has on a family that is broken before deployment... making life after a return home even more challenging.

For me, this book has an important message but it's a slow paced bummer of a novel (in the middle).  I listened to it which didn't let me skim through the whining, something I would had done had I been reading a paper copy.  I also don't know any children who act like Betsy, she's horrible/whiny from the beginning to the end.  It took away from the story a bit. I was tired of Betsy's whining and Jolene's feeling sorry for herself. 

Jolene is not an upbeat/happy person.  With a tough childhood and we are constantly reminded that she's unhappy (life has let her down somehow).  After she returns home...I kept waiting for her to read her email. I know people react differently in situations but since she was so unhappy at home, she most likely would have reached out to her 'family' after returning home.  She would have read Michael's email and much of to second half conflict would have been avoided.

Have you read it? Did the whining come across in the written novel (vs listening)?

Rating: 3 stars (for the importance of the story)
Source: Library (audio)
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Review: The Singles

Why I picked it: Something about the book cover drew me in.  I requested this book without reading the synopsis.

I'm happy to say this is our June MMBC selection!

Synopsis: Bee wanted the perfect wedding; she got the “Singles”

Back in her single days—before she met the man of her dreams—Beth “Bee” Evans hated being forced to attend weddings solo. Determined to spare her friends the same humiliation, she invites everyone on her list with a guest. Much to her chagrin, however, Hannah, Vicki, Rob, Joe, and Nancy insist upon attending Bee’s lavish Chesapeake Bay nuptials alone. The frustrated bride dubs them the “Minus-Ones” and their collective decision wreaks unintended havoc on her otherwise perfectly planned wedding weekend.

Type: Fiction

Quick Take: What a refreshing novel!  One that I read this book in a 24 hour time frame while on vacation earlier this year. 

The Singles is told from different voices, the bride (just once) and then it's told by the people to attend the wedding as a 'single'.  As the story goes on we learn how the singles know the bride and groom, their relationships, insecurities, and more.  It's a very fun look at an evening (and the morning after). 

One of the characters has a fun habit, when she walks in a room she casts the room with actors. This weaves it's way into the story, in a fun way.  Next time you go out to dinner, look around and cast the waiter/waitress, the couple at the table next to you. etc...

So... I read part of this book in a public sitting area at a hotel.  The couple sitting next to me were having the most uncomfortable conversation, one I couldn't avoid without leaving the room.  The wife actually told her husband, 'if you loved me you would give me a baby. It would show me you're no longer selfish'.  oyvay...  Casting: husband, Vince Vaughn; wife, Kate Winslet; bartender, Adam Sandler; person overhearing conversation, Sandra Bullock.  What do you think Vince Vaughn would say next?  They continued talking for about five minutes before they left the room.

Rating: 4 stars
Source: NetGalley
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Review: The Lost Daughter

Why I picked it: I picked this book up a few weeks ago, while shopping at Costco. 

The cover is stunning and reading Wally Lamb's endorsement led to my purchasing a copy of the book.

Synopsis: Brooke O'Connor—elegant, self-possessed, and kind—has a happy marriage and a deeply loved young daughter. So her adamant refusal to have a second child confounds her husband, Sean. When Brooke's high school boyfriend Alex—now divorced and mourning the death of his young son—unexpectedly resurfaces, Sean begins to suspect an affair.

For fifteen years Brooke has kept a shameful secret from everyone she loves. Only Alex knows the truth that drove them apart. His reappearance now threatens the life she has so carefully constructed and fortified by denial. With her marriage—and her emotional equilibrium—at stake, Brooke must confront what she has been unwilling to face for so long.

Type: Fiction

Quick Take: I dare you to read chapter one and put this book down.  I can't see anyone doing it! 

This novel starts with two teenagers in a hotel room, the girl is in labor.  It's a gut wrenching start to the book.  Fast forward fifteen years, Brooke is happily married, life seems good but she has a secret. Beautiful set up, how can the author go wrong?

Well, it's gets better... her high school boyfriend shows up (out of the blue) and confesses that the baby delivered all those years ago was breathing and left for dead, in a dumpster!  This is how the story begins...

This is a great book club selection - there's so much to discuss just from what I have mentioned above but there's so much more to the story. 

Have you read it? I'm happy to say I picked this book for the Omaha Bookworm's (July), we will have a fantastic discussion... I can't wait.  Find a copy and read it!

Rating: 4 stars
Source: Personal Copy
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Review: The Second Time We Met

Why I picked it: Manic Mommies Book Club selection

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GIVEAWAY:  I have one copy of this book to giveaway.  Just leave a comment to sign up (include your email)!  Drawing closes Sunday evening (Ap 9).  Open internationally.

Synopsis: Adored by his adoptive parents, Asher Stone is on the verge of a professional soccer career-when a car accident throws his future into doubt. Suddenly, Asher begins to wonder about the girl who gave him up for adoption in Colombia two decades ago. And so begins his search for a woman named Rita Ortiz.

From the streets of Bogata to a tiny orphanage tucked into a hillside, Asher untangles the mystery of Rita's identity. As he comes closer to finding Rita, his own parents are faced with fears and doubts, and Rita must soon make her own momentous choice: stay hidden, or meet the secret son who will bring painful memories-or the promise of a new beginning . . .

Quick Take: One of the great aspects of being in a book club is getting to discuss books and hear different opinions.  It's safe to say that for this month's book, everyone enjoyed it.  I received so many emails asking if the author was planning carry some of these characters forward, to another novel.  A delightful read.

I read this one in just three days, wanting to know how the Rita's story would end.  You will find yourself wanting to know more about Rita, Lucas, and her family.  What happens after the story ends.  I love it when a novel ends and the reader gets to imagine what's next!

Leila Cobo, what can I say... she's extremely talented!  A pianist, TV host and an author.  The Second Time We Met is her second novel.

You can listen to our discussion below (47 minutes), download to your laptop or from itunes:



Rating: 4 stars
Source: Personal Copy (iPad)
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Review: Little Girl Gone

Why I picked it: I was so excited to read this book with the Manic Mommies Book Club.  Campbell's last book still haunts me.

Synopsis: Madora was seventeen, headed for trouble with drugs and men, when Willis rescued her. Fearful of the world and alienated from family and friends, she ran away with him and for five years they have lived alone, in near isolation. But after Willis kidnaps a pregnant teenager and imprisons her in a trailer behind the house, Madora is torn between her love for him and her sense of right and wrong. When a pit bull puppy named Foo brings into Madora's world another unexpected person--Django Jones, a brilliant but troubled twelve-year-old boy--she's forced to face the truth of what her life has become.

An intensely emotional and provocative story, Little Girl Gone explores the secret hopes and fears that drive good people to do dangerous things . . . and the courage it takes to make things right.

Type: Fiction

Quick Take: I read this book from start to finish in one sitting, while flying back to the states from vacation earlier this year.  It had just the right level of creep factor for me... imagine being held captive while free to leave at any moment... trapped without locked doors.

This was our second MMBC selection from the author (love a return author).  We had a wonderful discussion, talking about the characters in this novel, the decisions we make, and the power someone can hold over you.

I was haunted by the decisions and actions Madora made throughout the novel.  After discussing the book I understood why she reacted like she did but I really wanted her to stand up for herself. Have you read it?  WOW... powerful.

This is a great book club selection - there's SO much to discuss.

Below is the audio from our discussion:



Favorite book by author: The Good Sister

Rating: 4 Stars
Source: Advanced copy for review
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Review: Lone Wolf

Why I picked it: My book club picked this one.  It's just three of us these days, but somehow it works.  It was a delightful evening.

I noticed that ShelleyRae (Book'd Out) was reading this last week and asked her if she was interested in discussing the book with me, sending each other three questions to answer. 

Click here to visit her blog and read my answers to her questions.

Synopsis: Edward Warren, twenty-four, has been living in Thailand for five years, a prodigal son who left his family after an irreparable fight with his father, Luke. But he gets a frantic phone call: His dad lies comatose, gravely injured in the same accident that has also injured his younger sister Cara.

With her father’s chances for recovery dwindling, Cara wants to wait for a miracle. But Edward wants to terminate life support and donate his father’s organs. Is he motivated by altruism, or revenge? And to what lengths will his sister go to stop him from making an irrevocable decision?
 
Type: Fiction

Quick Take: My book club discussed this book Wednesday evening. A discussion that latest a hour!  Having a nurse, a friend with an ailing grandparent and my experiences... we had plenty to discuss about end of life care/decisions and organ donation. 

We all agreed the wolf part was a bit too much but otherwise enjoyed the novel. 

My favorite Picoult novel: My Sister's Keeper

ShelleyRae answers three questions from me:

How did your view of Cara change as the novel progressed? Did you find her character believable (her actions/decisions)? While Cara always had my sympathy for the horrible situation she was in, I didn't like her very much. At seventeen she lacked the maturity I would have expected from a girl given so much adult responsibility while living with her father - I think she behaved closer to what I would expect from a spoilt and childish 15 year old. Her tantrums seemed a little excessive to me as did the constant dramatic accusations. Her manipulation of the court proved she was unable to consider the consequences of her actions. I did feel for her though especially when Edward quite bluntly shatters her view of her father and her family near the end of the novel.

This novel covers some controversial subjects. Were you uncomfortable with anything explored or the decisions made in the novel? I believe strongly in organ donation so I was glad to see that discussed. It irritates me personally that a person can nominate themselves as an organ donor on their licence, register their intent and still be overridden by grieving relatives who are not in a place to truly consider the option. 'Pulling the plug' is a much more complicated issue, in theory I believe it is better to let a person go when hope for any sort of meaningful recovery is minimal but I have never been confronted with that decision and if it was my parent, or husband or child in that bed I doubt the answer would be so clear. Personally I have discussed both issues with my husband and have asked he give his permission for organ donation and to let me go if recovery is unlikely.

What were your thoughts about the family members in Lone Wolf and the idea of family members quitting? Some might say Luke quit his family, choosing the wolves. Did Edward quit before returning home after his father’s accident? The family was broken but might be on the verge of reconnecting (at the end of the novel). Families are such complicated things, we don't choose who we are related to and sometimes walking away is the only way we can hold on to ourselves. It's notoriously difficult to sever the ties that bind family and I think however tenuously the connection remained as it does here. I feel Luke made a choice to put his obsession with wolves above the needs of his own family, he quit being a husband and father to meet his own needs but he didn't desert them completely - though it may have been kinder to. In contrast I think Edward felt he had no real choice, he left for the right reasons even though the decision was based on faulty thinking. That he kept in touch with his mother and dropped everything to return home shows to me that he hadn't quit his family but absented himself from a difficult situation.

Thanks for discussing this book with me,  I look forward to another selection down the road.

Rating: 3 stars
Source: Personal Copy
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Review: The Underside of Joy

Why I picked it:  I discovered this book on ShelleyRae's blog, Book'd Out early February, signed up for a giveaway... and won!

These two sentences from ShelleyRae's review had me hooked: Halverson touches upon some important issues in this novel including postnatal depression, infertility, child custody and the role of step mothers. In a broader sense the themes ask the reader to consider if honesty is always best, what are the limits of love and asks how we define a family.

Synopsis: Losing a husband is virtually unbearable. Losing your children to the birth mother who abandoned them, whilst you are still grieving, is one heartbreak too far. It must not be allowed to happen … Ella counts as her blessings her wonderful husband, two animated kids and an extended family who regard her as one of their own.

Yet when her soul mate Joe tragically drowns, her life is turned upside down without warning, and she finds that the luck, which she had thought would last forever, has run out. When Joe’s beautiful ex-wife, who deserted their children three years earlier, arrives at the funeral, Ella fears the worst. And she may well be right to. Ella discovers she must struggle with her own grief, while battling to remain with the children and the life which she loves. Questioning her own role as a mother, and trying to do what is right, all she is sure of is that she needs her family to make it through each day. Yet when pushed to the limits of love, Ella must decide whether she is, after all, the best mother for her children.

Type: Fiction

Quick Take: As mentioned at the top of this post, I was interested to explore the definition of family and the limits of love. I read this novel in two/three days, which is fast for me, and was invested in the story.  I wanted to know if Ella's life would return to it's peaceful, ideal existence but knew this wasn't possible. 

After answering the questions below, I think this would make for a great book club selection.  There's a lot to discuss.

I loved this book.  Read it!

When I find a reader's guide, I like to include three questions (exploring books, the themes, characters, etc... without spoilers). Often I appreciate a book more after answering them:

What were your first impressions of Paige? How did they change as the story progressed? Paige is the children's birth mother, who suffers from postnatal depression.  The reader is invested in Ella's story (the step mom) when Paige enters the novel so I didn't want to like Paige.   She came across as aggressive with her approach yet I understood her motive. It isn't until later in the book that the reader feels compassion for her decisions.

By the end of the novel, I came to appreciate Paige and even began to like her.

How is “drowning” used as a significant theme in the novel, both literally and figuratively? The author does a wonderful job letting the reader become attached to a community and a family.  When the tragedy of Joe's sudden death happens you feel for all the characters in the novel.  Ella is drowning figuratively knowing that Joe isn't coming back.  Dealing with the the aftermath and the parts of his story that she discovers after he dies is more than overwhelming at times.  The children are drowning to make Ella and Paige happy but can they decide between Ella and Paige and find balance?  This is heartbreaking to read.  Paige is drowning in guilt, for walking away from her family, for what she's missed, for the relationship Ella and Joe had.

In what ways are Ella and Paige different? In what ways are they the same? If you were Annie or Zach, who would you want to live with? This is a tough question.  Mother v Step Mother or Mother v Father... it's very hard for a child to feel this pull.  The guilt with making a decision and hurting the other parent.  I was rooting for the women to decide to live close enough that the children could see both parents BUT I if I was in Paige's situation I might not want to share them.   I can't explore this here without giving up bits of the story... you will have to trust me.

Rating: 4 stars
Source: Personal Copy (I won this one)
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Review: The Replacement Wife

Why I picked it: The cover grabbed my attention and the plot sounded interesting.

Synopsis: Camille Hart, one of Manhattan’s most sought-after matchmakers, has survived more than her fair share of hardships. Her mother died when she was a young girl, leaving her and her sister with an absentee father. Now in her forties, she has already survived cancer once, though the battle revealed just how ill-equipped her husband Edward is to be a single parent. So when doctors tell Camille that her cancer is back—and this time it’s terminal—she decides to put her matchmaking expertise to the test for one final job. Seeking stability for her children and happiness for her husband, Camille sets out to find the perfect woman to replace her when she’s gone.

But what happens when a dying wish becomes a case of “be careful what you wish for”? For Edward and Camille, the stunning conclusion arrives with one last twist of fate that no one saw coming.

At once deeply felt and witty, The Replacement Wife is an unforgettable story of love and family, and a refreshing look at the unexpected paths that lead us to our own happy endings

Type: Fiction

Quick Take: Having read a few books by this author I knew to expect strong characters.  I was invested.

This is an interesting story. Camille is a wife/mother/cancer survivor/matchmaker, when her cancer returns she decides to find a wife for her husband.  Camille is looking for someone to take care of the family, love her husband, and children.

What happens next is unthinkable. Wanting his wife to be happy for the last few months of her life... Camille's husband begrudgingly let's his wife introduce him to women she has blessed as an acceptable replacement.

This story twists and turns, some parts are predictable but some caught me off guard.  It's hard discussing this novel without giving away the story but let me say it's gut wrenching at times.

If you enjoy Sparks novels you will enjoy this book. 

Rating: 4 stars
Source: NetGalley
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Review: The Orchard: a memoir

Why I picked it: I enjoy memoirs. I read them knowing they are one persons memories made into a story that's readable.

Synopsis: THE ORCHARD is the story of a street-smart city girl who must adapt to a new life on an apple farm after she falls in love with Adrian Curtis, the golden boy of a prominent local family whose lives and orchards seem to be cursed. Married after only three months, young Theresa finds life with Adrian on the farm far more difficult and dangerous than she expected.

Rejected by her husband's family as an outsider, she slowly learns for herself about the isolated world of farming, pesticides, environmental destruction, and death, even as she falls more deeply in love with her husband, a man she at first hardly knew and the land that has been in his family for generations. She becomes a reluctant player in their attempt to keep the codling moth from destroying the orchard, but she and Adrian eventually come to know that their efforts will not only fail but will ultimately take an irreparable toll.

Type: Memoir

Quick Take: Did you know this was an Oprah book?   

I have read several reviews, some people have strong opinions on the farming practices noted in the memoir.  The apple orchard was a secondary storyline for me, I actually couldn't spend much time on the farming practices... I may never eat again.  Another reason to eat organic as much as possible!

This isn't just a story about a woman, strong in-laws who are disappointed most of the time, rejection, cancer, and a husband who's pulled in two directions... it's a story of hope.  The author's life journey to building a life for herself, she found a way to persevere even though her journey was tough at times.

Three questions from the Oprah reading guide

How might the lack of adult guidance in the author's childhood have laid the groundwork for her decision to get married so quickly? I believe that for most people, how we are raised and events that happen to us can create situations.  Longing for love and acceptance, and getting this from some one can feel like an escape path to a happier life.  The author makes a quick decision, she quickly learns there are consequences.  She surely wasn't welcomed into his family... her husband left her alone to the point were she was left wondering 'why' a lot.

The author is never quite sure why Adrian married her. Was it passive-aggressive behavior on his part? Did he want to annoy his mother? Was he attracted to someone who represented the freedom he could never have? Or was it something else? I believe all of these questions are true statements.  We never learn exactly why Adrian acted like he did throughout most of the story, I like to think he saw something he wasn't able to have (he had to carry on his family legacy even if he didn't want to).  This does keep the reader's interest through the book.

Do you have a favorite apple? I love Braeburn from New Zealand, they taste completely different than the ones grown in the US.

Rating: 4 stars
Source: Library (audio)
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Review: I've Got Your number

Why I picked it: I haven't read anything written by this author, I was curious. 

Synopsis: Poppy has never felt luckier. She is about to marry her ideal man, Magnus, but in one afternoon her “happily ever after” begins to fall apart. Not only has she lost her engagement ring in a hotel fire drill but in the panic that follows, her phone is stolen. As she paces shakily around the lobby, she spots an abandoned phone in a trash can. Finders keepers! Now she can leave a number for the hotel to contact her when they find her ring. Perfect!

Type: fiction (chic-lit)

Quick Take:  I knew this was chic-lit when I picked it but it's really, really light in fare... until the last third of the novel. 

If you have read my blog for a while, you know that sometimes I struggle letting fiction happen. With this novel I never got over the fact that someone found a work phone, loaded with email/text features... without password protection... and was allowed to keep it/use it.  sorry....

If I ignore this blunder, I enjoyed the story enough.  It reminded me of Runaway Bride (the Julia Roberts movie).  This would make for a good selection if you are looking for a light, fun novel for vacation.

Rating: 3 stars
Source: Review Copy (NetGalley)
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Review: The Darlings

Why I picked it: I accepted this book for review after reading the synopsis.

I'm just going to say it... since moving near NYC I enjoy reading about the wealthy and am amazed at the luxuries and wonder at the decisions some people make (a distorted view of reality). Based on these facts alone, this should have been a good story for me (I also live with a news junky and know more than I should about the 2008 market collapse).

Synopsis: A sophisticated page-turner about a wealthy New York family embroiled in a financial scandal with cataclysmic consequences.

Now that he's married to Merrill Darling, daughter of billionaire financier Carter Darling, attorney Paul Ross has grown accustomed to New York society and all of its luxuries: a Park Avenue apartment, weekends in the Hamptons, bespoke suits. When Paul loses his job, Carter offers him the chance to head the legal team at his hedge fund. Thrilled with his good fortune in the midst of the worst financial downturn since the Great Depression, Paul accepts the position.

But Paul's luck is about to shift: a tragic event catapults the Darling family into the media spotlight, a regulatory investigation, and a red-hot scandal with enormous implications for everyone involved. Suddenly, Paul must decide where his loyalties lie-will he save himself while betraying his wife and in-laws or protect the family business at all costs?

Type: Fiction

Quick Take: I'm left a little flat on how to review this book.  I didn't dislike it but I didn't love it.  If I'm honest, I was lost often while reading due to the sheer amount of characters I had to follow.  Each chapter was told from a different person, with a time stamp from the Weds before Thanksgiving, through turkey day and beyond.  Within the chapters 'she/he' was referenced from time to time, only I had no idea who that person was. 

I mostly enjoyed reading about Mr/Mrs Darling (Merrill's parents).  While his life was about to be exposed and fortune's tumbling.... the show must go on (Thanksgiving dinner).  It was interesting to read that a life ending tragedy happened yet the meal couldn't be interrupted.  The way this played out was the most interesting part of the novel for me.

Rating: 3 stars
Source: NetGalley
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Review: The World We Found

Why I picked it: I have been waiting for Umrigar's new novel for months so it's not a surprise that I wanted to read it as soon as it was published.

When I discovered SKrishna was hosting a read-a-long for this novel, I signed up immediately. 

Synopsis: As students in 1970s Bombay, Armaiti, Laleh, Kavita, and Nishta were inseparable, but the quartet has since drifted apart.

When Armaiti, now living in America, learns that she is gravely ill, she hopes to see the friends she left behind thirty years ago.

For Laleh, reunion is bittersweet, but she promises to fulfill her friend’s wish. She convinces Kavita to put aside the past, and the two search for Nishta, who has long been hiding in a bitter, oppressive marriage. In the course of their journey to reconnect, the four women must confront the truths of their lives and acknowledge long-held regrets, secrets, and desires. And they will have to decide what matters most, a choice that just may help them reclaim the extraordinary world they once found.

Type: Fiction

Quick Take: Thrity Umrigar is one of my favorite authors so you won't be surprised to learn that I enjoyed this book.  It's a great book club selection, one my book club discussed earlier this month.

Armed with questions from the read-a-long, we discussed the novel for quite some time. We all enjoyed the book.  While I was expecting a slightly different ending, the others were happy with how it ended.  We spent most of our time discussing religion and the decisions we make. How life happens at such a gentle pace sometimes that a decade later one might wonder 'how did I get here'. 

Religion, money, friendship and culture a few of the themes in this novel. 

I enjoyed getting a glimpse into the challenges women still face and found myself most interested in Nishta's story.  How does someone fall into her life situation? 

Favorite book by this author: The Space Between Us

Rating: 4 stars
Country: India
Source: Review Copy
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